Parenthood
by Marcus Loane
10th Nov 2009
I
am now 41 years old and it is only as I have got older, that I have realised
the sacrifices that parents make for their children. They give up their free
time, much of their income, and restrict their options on what they work at or
where they live and when they retire. I am married with no children and
enjoying the freedom of it. It means I do not know firsthand, what parenthood
is like. I can get a sense of it now though and know that as well as being
rewarding it has the potential to cause a lot of worry which never really ends.
Some parents have told me that everything changes when you become a parent and
that nothing properly prepares you for it.
I
want to thank my parents for all the sacrifices they made and wish that they
know how grateful I am for everything they did for me. I am thankful that my
childhood interests were encouraged and supported. I fondly remember going on
bird watching expeditions, sharing photographic expertise with my father
(Andrew) on holidays and enjoying helping him with his endless home and garden
improvement projects. I admired his resourcefulness and willingness to tackle
anything. My mother (Carole) used to surprise me with little acts of
thoughtfulness like bringing me cups of coffee when I was studying for exams in
the evenings and she got such delight at our joy on Christmas mornings. She
worked hard to keep our home ticking over and keep us all on the straight and
narrow. I am especially grateful for my education which has enriched my
understanding and experience of life. I am also thankful for all the material
things passed my way which has made my life easier.
I
am so glad that my parents brought me into the world and allowed me to be a
part of existence.
Thank
you Dad
and thank you Mum.
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